Tuesday, July 22, 2008

bleeding in silence

"..letting a go is just another way to say you love a peson"

puff, me saying those stuff =) talking to different love situations. Some kinnda funny for me saying those things. I don't know that much from that word Love... Now, I'm trying to figure out why do they look for me to confess different confusing situations they undergo. I happy when I personally see them happy because I know that they simply deserve to be. I also feel really sad to see one of them letting a girl he really love go, simply because he's seeing something wrong? within them, treating each other something more than friends without no attachments at all. Sad thing she was commited to someone who was so busy to the fact that his boyfriend has no time for her. And here comes my friend to fulfill the duties and responsibilities of a significant person in her life, as a friend. So sad to think that everything was only out of friendship (though its the foundation of love)... but I personally saw my friend to transform each day, saw him really happy because he was with a person that he chose to be special. As I was telling him, having a space-- a time to think will be a good way to asses themselves if they really felt love.. time will make them realize that they need each other not simply because of the inspiration they give but most especially because they love each other. Time and space doesn't mean that long and distance from each other doesn't always mean separation-- but a way to realize that despite the time and distance that you're not together you feel something different.

It might be hard to do but just think it's just another test of love, its just another way of showing that person that you really love her to the fact that you can sacrifice even you will be bleeding in silence.

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